hello! so i hear you want to gender me correctly, and i’m a big fan of you for that. while i’m happy with singular they, my pronouns are ey/em/eir, also known as “spivak”, and they go sort of like this:

he / she / ey
his / her / eir
him / her / em

here is a random example!

“he used his ventriloquism skills to distract the mounties because he wanted the candy all to himself. that’s just what he’s like. that’s him in a nutshell.”

would be spivaked LIKE SO:

“ey used eir ventriloquism skills to distract the mounties because ey wanted the candy all to emself. that’s just what ey’s like. that’s em in a nutshell.”

handy guide: it’s generally like “they” with the “th” lopped off!

“they used their ventriloquism skills to distract the mounties because they wanted the candy all to themsel(f)ves. that’s just what they’(s)re like. that’s them in a nutshell.”

thankyou for making the effort! i know that learning new pronouns takes time, but i like you a lot for trying. ok bye!!